Welcome friends. Please *smile* sit back and relax a few minutes and listen to the music. Do you recognize it("summer-rain")that one I loved so. For most of us have seen the rain, this feeling could stay in your mind in one way or the other. Cool hah!
...Well this is a little bit about me. My real name is Le Linh Ngan. I was born in Saigon, Vietnam. My needs are every simple. Happiness to me are the little thing in life: a sunny day, the sound of rain drops tapping across my window, a warm home to come back to, a good book, etc... I see beauty in everything around me. I don't know what more I want from life. I think as long as I have food in my stomach ("no man can be wise on a empty stomach"-cha(~ng co' ke? na`o co' the^? kho^n ngoan vo*'i ca'i da. da`y le'p xe.p) and roof over my head then life is just a book that I can't wait to open each day unfolds.As for being sad, I guess I am sadnest when someone I love is in pain, and there is nothing I can do to alleviate that pain. I also get upsets at things, but as I get older I take things easier. Problems that might seem so big at the moment is actually very tiny when you look at the big picture, and put it in the right perspective. So why waste my time and energy beings angry
when I could be happy.
I don't deny the fact that money is nice. But to me, money is a mean to happiness but not happiness in & of itself.
...About the relationship, the greatest love is love for yourself.
I think in a relationship, you have to have enough love for yourself first before
your can have anything left over to give to the other person. The fastest way
to kill a relationship is by clinging too tight to the other person. When you
don't have enough love for yourself, you look to the other person to be your life
raft which you hang on until you actually choke the other person to death.
"Do this for me". "Show me you love me". "Prove that you care". "I'm lonely without you".
"I need to be with you to be happy"... You see how it can be pretty suffocating?
On the other hand, if you have enough love for yourself, if you can find happiness within yourself,
you don't need to make demands on your partner. To me, a perfect relationship
is when you have two people who are complete being within themselves sharing mutural love that is given freely and unconditionally.For this reason, I don't like to waste time on relationships that seem to be going nowhere.
Everyday, I work hard. Why do I do so much? I have this philosophy
that I only have one life to live, and I want to get as much out of its as possible.
To me, life itself is a holy gift and to live is divine, therefore we should live the fullest and never waste a minute of it.
I can't possibly think all of it now. I live my life as I see fit.
Well, this doesn't last forever, so ever let a day go by without living it to the fullest.I know you are only here for a short whole,I do thanks and hope you enjoy your visit here, and please do come back from time to time and check out my updates.
Also, don't forget to sign my book to let me know that you visit me.